Friend come and Friends go....

As we get older we change and with that so do our friends. I have all types of friends: highschool friends, college friends, sorority sisters, work friends, childhood family friends, and newly met friends. One thing is for sure you may think you know someone well and you may know your so called "Friend" but a lot of times I'm proven wrong or right on my theory on them. I definitely consider myself a good friend. I try to be there for my friends to listen to give advice to spend time with when I can among my priorities of my family. But I've found out over time that some people are just down right rude or just don't value good friendship. I mean the best thing is to limit interaction with those type of people. Who knows why people are like that. I recently had a fall out with a friend the funny thing is that friend doesn't even know it yet, because she's too busy with all her superficial friends to care. I mean I'm irritated by it ,but I guess that is just life. One minute you are the greatest of friends and boom like a bomb that friendship explodes. I'm okay with it I just think like any relationship you have to just move on and keep going! All you can do is cherish the good memories from your friendships! When I was in my 20's I was okay with things I'd just let go of stuff or just not care if friends were flakey or unreliable. But now as I'm 31 I have a different prespective. Let go, move on and learn from your mistakes. Don't become a door mat for anyone no matter how much you think you are good friends with someone if they disrespect, don't really care, and are just plain rude. Time to say BYE BYE! Just saying that's all... My vent is over and out.... If you are someone's friends be a friend not just by name but in your actions. Sure life get's the best of you, but you can atleast make time whether it is a phone call, tweet, FB, whatever these days it is even easier to keep in touch!!!! ~R