Friend come and Friends go....

As we get older we change and with that so do our friends. I have all types of friends: highschool friends, college friends, sorority sisters, work friends, childhood family friends, and newly met friends. One thing is for sure you may think you know someone well and you may know your so called "Friend" but a lot of times I'm proven wrong or right on my theory on them. I definitely consider myself a good friend. I try to be there for my friends to listen to give advice to spend time with when I can among my priorities of my family. But I've found out over time that some people are just down right rude or just don't value good friendship. I mean the best thing is to limit interaction with those type of people. Who knows why people are like that. I recently had a fall out with a friend the funny thing is that friend doesn't even know it yet, because she's too busy with all her superficial friends to care. I mean I'm irritated by it ,but I guess that is just life. One minute you are the greatest of friends and boom like a bomb that friendship explodes. I'm okay with it I just think like any relationship you have to just move on and keep going! All you can do is cherish the good memories from your friendships! When I was in my 20's I was okay with things I'd just let go of stuff or just not care if friends were flakey or unreliable. But now as I'm 31 I have a different prespective. Let go, move on and learn from your mistakes. Don't become a door mat for anyone no matter how much you think you are good friends with someone if they disrespect, don't really care, and are just plain rude. Time to say BYE BYE! Just saying that's all... My vent is over and out.... If you are someone's friends be a friend not just by name but in your actions. Sure life get's the best of you, but you can atleast make time whether it is a phone call, tweet, FB, whatever these days it is even easier to keep in touch!!!! ~R

Kids Today...

Seriously as I hear my niece or nephew who are considered tweens talking about what goes on in their age group it terrifies me with having kids grow up in today's society. I mean when I was 11 or 12 I seriously did not do or talk about 1/2 the things kids are up to today!!!! It's alarming! I mean my niece and nephew are luckily raised well and no the difference between right and wrong but they are faced with so much stuff kids their age should not be faced with. I mean there are kids picking on other kids for what clothes they have on, kids on facebook, kids having sex, doing drugs at 9 years old. Yeah 9 years old I was hearing in the news all about a 9 year old bring cocaine to school what's up with that!!!
Here is what I think if you are going to bring kids into this world you better BE A PARENT!!! Kids are born innocent and they are shaped by their environment. My mom was on my butt 24/7 like the CIA or FBI she always knew what was up and she was schooling me very young about everything. I mean I was scared of her she'd give me that look and it was "GAME OVER"! I could not pull anything on her. I think what she did will shape me to be a good and attentive parent. I mean I feel like some of these people just have kids and expect them to just figure shit out or raise themselves. Then you have teen moms and other messed up type having kids. It's sad there are people out there dying to have children, spending money, doing whatever to have their own kid. Then you have these people popping out kids that don't even have a clue about parenting and don't care! I mean times have changed and things are staring up younger and younger. I feel like some people allow their kids to act up and do rotten things.
My nephew talks about how superficial the kids are at school abercrombie this and Uggs that. I mean I like nice things but I don't wear them to rub it in other people's faces. You do you for you! Not to care what others think. I'm always giving my nieces and nephews advice and I pray for all kids because that is the world's future! So everyone should do their part to help kids learn what is right and be a role model! I'm just saying!

Just a thought not a sermon!

~Rosanna

Fist pumpin fools!!!

Okay so I'll admit it I'm seriously a reality junky I don't know why, but my husband is always making fun of me when I do my ritual of watching Jersey Shore on JERSDAY!!! Yes I know I know WTF right... Okay but when I watch the show it's like my brain just goes on vacay. It's so ridiculous but I watch it the train wreck of a show. I probably am part of the problem when I'm watching the show and these punks are making 6million bucks. What did I do wrong, why didn't I ever try out for a reality show LOL!!!

I mean really Pauly D and I are the same age, so seriously we are on two different wave lengths when he's GTL all day long and I'm WGLKHD (Working my ass off, Gym to lose baby weight, Laundry which never ends, Kids driving me bananas, Husband to take care of actually another kid ;) and Dinner... OH YEAH OH YEAH... Tshirt time for me means cleaning the house in my tshirt.... They need make a reality show for real people like me doing it all!!!! In the mean time let me enjoy my silly show! :P